This is a well-considered study. Appreciated the focus on moving away from divisive, zero-sum thinking and instead highlighting how addressing men’s struggles—like mental health, education, and social behavior—can have broader societal benefits. The emphasis on pro-social values like courage and responsibility offers a constructive framework for discussing masculinity without dismissing its importance or framing it as inherently toxic. The idea that helping men can benefit everyone is a valuable perspective, especially in areas like education reform or mental health support, where targeted approaches for men can create ripple effects. But when you mentioned that women prefer dating older men, that’s not always the case. I read the article that as a woman grows older, she may prefer to date men her own age or younger, provided that he still indicates male characteristics, so to speak. But in general, I am very thankful to you for raising important questions about how we define masculinity today and how we can shape it in a way that’s healthier and more inclusive. It’s a thoughtful take on a topic that deserves more balanced and empathetic conversations.
